There is only one ego. The ego exists in each one of us. It is the mind of our identity. So when one ego steals from us or murders one of us we may get angry and want to hurt or kill them. The part of us that wants vengeance or revenge is the same ego that justified the theft in the mind the one who stole from us. If we attack, injure or kill those who have ‘trespassed’ against us we allow the ego that is within them and controlled them to indirectly control us. Without forgiveness we become victims of our own judgement serving the ego that was once called Satan. So we have a dilemma.