Most people are not being true to their own self when they are with or around others. There are many who can’t be their own true self when around family, friends, colleagues or officials. Some believe or know that if they drop their persona they may be insulted, attacked or rejected. To create our self to our own criteria is to betray what God created. We reject our self when we reject our true feelings. This is a rejection of what God created. This is done by allowing the criteria and prejudices of others to judge ‘us’ to be unworthy. We deny our true self when we conform.